“There is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will use you, some will teach you, some will disappoint you, and some will test you. The ones who truly matter are the ones who love you, the ones who are there for you, and always bring out the best in you.”
People come in and out of our lives everyday. Reflecting on your own life I’m sure everyone can pinpoint a person who taught them a valuable lesson, a person who did them wrong, and a person who tested their values. There’s positives and negatives to this.
We get hurt and used in order to grow and learn from our past. We can hold grudges, and refuse to forgive those who have hurt us, however learning to forgive is a lesson in disguise. Even in a bad situation, look for the silver lining. Step back and think about what you’ve learned from others wrongdoings, and what you’ve learned from how others have treated you.
Look for the lesson hidden in every experience.